Starting to realize that economics drives most choices in life is part of growing up. It’s tricky being in the upper middle class competing with the truly wealthy because it skews your perception of normal and possible, and the truly would rather get attention for their skills and talents rather than their parents trust funds. So they don’t often let on how much money creates the possibility of success.
The great thing about horses is that there’s many more affordable ways and places to enjoy them than the high dollar junior hunter circuit which has been deliberately designed to maximize trainer income and fast track paying clients. It’s fine to dabble in this as a junior but it’s a tiny hothouse slice of horse world, and it develops show ring skills more than general horsemanship.
Lots of things for teens are made to be super structured super competitive super expensive and rather limited in scope. It’s about impossible to see beyond these boundaries imposed by adults when you are in the middle of all this.
The trainers that sell a horse for $600,000 didn’t buy the horse for that much. Depending on their business model and relations with breeders they could buying yearlings for $30k, bringing them up the levels, then selling as a proven show horse for $600,000 to a child with rich parents. It’s not a 6 figure horse until it’s sold! Or they are riding clients horses during the week. They made the horse, sold it for $600,000 to an ammie or junior client then continue to train it and ride it in open classes to warm up for the ammie.
Did I say “is cash grab” already? Trainers have to make every dollar they can.