I am horse shopping, and it is truly awful. My last horse fell into my lap, and I was really hoping that would happen again but it’s not looking like I am going to get lucky this time.
I am tall (5’10") and I’m by no means heavy, but I have a pretty athletic build so on the wrong horse I can look pretty top heavy. I can fit my legs on a horse with a small barrel pretty comfortably, but I can do nothing about my torso towering a mile above the horse.
I have tried some bigger (16.2-ish) horses, but they either aren’t fun or won’t pass the vet. But I keep coming across these really cool 15.2h horses. They are green and wiggly and trying to figure out how to balance, but they are so smart and so game. I feel comfortable on them but when I watch the video back from when I try them I can’t tell if I look silly or not.
I have been asking friends and trainers from all disciplines for their input on one particular small mare and my dressage and eventing friends like her and think her size is fine. They all point to Boyd Martin and Tsetserleg, who is a very tall guy on a smaller horse and is at the top of the world. But my hunter and jumper friends say she is way too small. Since I come from a dressage background but I am trying to get back to the jumper ring, I’d like to ask everyone here if they have rules of thumb. Should I be concerned or is there a possibility that my friends are just used to super sized warmbloods in the hunter and eq rings so their ideal is skewed?