The horse I am trying goes in a pelham. I haven’t needed to use a pelham in a loooooong time.
I was trying him out at a show this weekend and I had three different people tell me I was holding the reins wrong and “told” me the correct way.
Needless to say I ended up changing the reins several times and now my brain is all confused about how I really should be holding them. My trainer told me one way, the owner another and another trainer another way.
I had no trouble with the horse or keeping my hands soft while riding, so that wasn’t a problem.
How I thought was the correct was was to keep the snaffle rein on the bottom between my pinky and ring finger and to keep the curb rein on the top between my ring and middle finger.
Is there a right and wrong way? Or as long as it works for you its okay?