I love this topic! It inspired me to sign up and post.
I rode h/j as a kid and teen but my parents didn’t support my dedication to the sport, there were some money constraints but my father mostly just thought it was too dangerous. As a 20-something, between going to college and working entry level jobs, I thought I had to let go of the dream of high level showing and unfortunately I did for a while. There was some resentment there about not being allowed to show much growing up, and I made the choice not to revisit the dream.
I started lessons again last year, at 30 years old, and I’m happy to say there’s no turning back. I’ve worked up to a pretty good career that allows me to work remotely, and I can finally afford lessons twice a week at the high end h/j barn in town and to do the local show circuit on some nice horses. End goal would be to be able to afford my own horse who can take me around the more prestigious shows in my region, which is going to require some strategic budgeting, but I’m here for it. I’m not looking to go pro, ride in a grand prix, etc. but to finally fulfill my dream of competing consistently and successfully in something I love to do.
We are definitely lucky to love a sport that doesn’t have an age limit (with a touch unlucky to love such an expensive sport). But show up if you want it. I’m upset that I had given up and missed the last 10 years, but I won’t let it happen again. Will I now be using my vacation time for shows, working some nights to ride during the day, spending my extra income on horses? Yep. Am I happy to do it? Yep!
Best of luck sir!