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And none of it matches your horse! HORRIBLE! Quick, send that loathsome chestnut to me and get a horse that matches! :lol:
On a serious note, when I was growing up (did I finish?) I was always taught to attempt to match your bridle to your horse, and then try to match your saddle to your bridle if you cared enough.
I rode a grey :rolleyes:.
And then a black.
I have the opposite issue as goodlife, my saddle is lighter than my bridle. I see it, it bothers me, but I don’t think anyone else cares 
I’d definitely try to get rid of the redness of the saddle, but as to what level of brownness you achieve to match the bridle, that’s less important. :yes:.
FWIW, I have used lots of oils that promise to darken leather. Mainly because my saddle won’t darken, at least not for the long term… Best results I had was with Walsh’s Clean n Treat, which actually has dye in it. I never used olive oil though.[/QUOTE]
I must admit no one had passed on the advice to me about trying to match tack color to horse color, just taught to focus on fit. :o Probably because I never had to buy tack for a horse that was show quality, the horses I leased/lessoned on had their own and my gaited horse needed his own special tack anyways! Also probably because my mother just never gave a rats patootie about it, haha. She claims that why she switched to western in her adult life.
Thank you for putting my mind a bit more at ease. I’m still going to work on it some and definitely try the warm olive oil, but good to know that it’s not the end of the world if it doesn’t match.
BTW, does it matter if it is extra virgin olive oil or not?
:lol: That is exactly what I was more concerned with. Then when I started looking for bridles and received the one from my BF, I thought “uh-oh”…