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Before you actually buy horses I would recommend taking some lessons again - and your husband, too - just to get yourself back into the horse world at a less committed level before you actually buy any horses, trailer, etc. And I would look for some kind of program, ideally, that would cover basics of horse care and management; when I lived in East Texas the local junior college had a “Horse Ownership 101” class that covered all kinds of things like basic care, feed, farriery, dental needs, etc. If nothing like that exists near you, find some of Cherry Hill’s books about horse-keeping and designing/managing a small farm.
There would be nothing worse, in my opinion, than jumping the gun and ending up with unsuitable horses, trailer, or farm layout because you didn’t take the time to think it all out first. Not meant to be critical, just reminding that research and planning would be a huge benefit when making the kind of investment(s) - and life changes, really - that you’re talking about. Good luck and I hope your adventure with horses ends up being everything you’d like it to be.[/QUOTE]
Very well put, GMP.
This may not be what you want to hear, looneybird, but it’s really good advice. There’s just so much that goes into having horses at home…why would you want to jump to buying three when you’ve not even taken lessons recently, and still consider yourself brand new to them? There’s a LOT that can go SO wrong.
Take some more lessons, find a mentor, read up, give it a couple years. Then decide if you really want to find some suitable horses for your place, or if you just want to enjoy having the room for yourselves.