This is a spinoff from the recent Peacock Stirrups thread.
Question: what’s the best way to dismount from an English saddle?
I was taught that you kick both feet out of the stirrups, and then slide off. This is easiest on the horse’s back and least chance of getting a foot stuck. But in the Peacock thread, some commenters were also describing keeping your left foot in the stirrups, swinging your right leg over, then kicking your left foot out and dropping.
I do this last one when I get back from a trail ride really thrashed but my mare absolutely does not like it and makes a pissy face at the weight shift. I try to do the both feet out most of the time, and try to dismount on soft ground if I can to spare my knees (I am no longer young). I do hold onto the saddle to make my drop a bit more controlled which is not ideal.
My mare is very solid for mountiujng and dismounting so I’m not so worried about safety but more about her back, comfort, and attitude.