So, I’ve got a bit of a unique situation on my hands and curious how others go about this.
I’ve been riding a mare that is the quirkiest creature I have ever sat on. For context, this horse was in a trailer accident years ago, and has been spooky as all hell ever since, but is also just conformationally weird (short front legs, short neck, very straight hind legs which all makes the dressage a challenge). Her owner got sick and leased her out to two girls who shared a half lease on her at my barn-one of the girls ended her half of the lease, and so the other girl now just asks me to ride her sometimes when she can’t get to the barn. The horse does all of these things with her too-she has just learned when to pick her battles and if there’s a day the horse won’t cooperate, then she’ll try again another day and is endlessly patient with the mare.
Now, I don’t pay to ride this horse, so I have no ground to stand on to suggest to the owners to go down the vet route and see if something could be wrong - and I do believe they have tried a few things to no avail. I guess the mare just has some mental trauma from the accident, and we work with what we have.
The thing is, there are some things she’s spooky about that she will not get over whatsoever. The woods that begin at the far end of our outdoor, the far door in our indoor (we have two large entrances to the indoor), the nearest corner of the indoor (where some small farming equipment is, but not as much as the other corner that doesn’t concern her at all), when snow slides off the roof it’s the end of the world for her, etc.
Most of the time, the horse will bolt. Occasionally though, she’ll just refuse to move at all. This is different than her just “freezing”, because it’s only near the scary stuff like the corner and there’s no big reaction after freezing, she’ll just only move if you let her get further away from it. She’ll go around fine, but try to go into the corner and she’ll plant her feet entirely and refuse to move a single foot. It’s like it’s half fear, half stubbornness.
Things I have not tried thus far: getting off and walking her to the scary things then getting back on (though I have walked her by them before getting on and it makes no difference), lunging her near them, or putting spurs on and just trying more leg that way.
Things I have tried: small circle and slowly make it bigger and bigger until she gets closer to the scary area (this sometimes works but it’s not reliable), asking for lateral work when going by it (I’ve had the most success with this but only if she starts the ride willing to do those things and sometimes she doesn’t), letting her stand for a few mins then giving a light tap or kick to go forward and see the scary stuff, etc.
I don’t personally have any experience dealing with this-and honestly, since it’s not my horse if I have to just call it a day when she gets like this then fine. But I’d like to try my hardest to help her get a little bit better with this stuff so that when her owner is healthy enough to ride again she’s not too tough for her. So…any special tips or tricks??