I love that you said this!
We try to instill in the kids and adults who ride at our shows that safety and learning is the most important - but also want to educate about WHY they might be scored one over another.
As a side note, there was an interesting moment of judging this weekend (with a top quality R rated judge) that we spent quite a bit of time discussing. It was in an equitation medal class at 2’6" with six riders.
Rider 1 was on a push button hunter type horse, correct leads or clean lead changes/decent distances and position.
Rider 2 was on a green but willing jumper/eq type horse, landed leads/great position and ride for the horse’s abilities
Rider 3 was on a large pony eventer, simple changes and more of an upright position/rode to the base and had tighter distances
Rider 1 had three canter strides before the trot fence, took a longer route for the rollback
Rider 2 broke to a trot for a step in a rollback, great trot fence
Rider 3 had two simple changes but a flawless trot fence and rollback
All other riders had suitable lead changes and a variety of minor errors on course.
In a class of 6,
Rider 1 was first
Rider 3 was fifth
Rider 2 was sixth
The judge explained that she penalized Rider 2 the most harshly because she didn’t support through the rollback - it was her error and not the horse’s. She wasn’t the biggest fan of the dressagey ride of Rider 3 and penalized the trot change, hence their placing. For rider 1, the canter before the jump was an error, but it was clear that she had established the trot and the horse made the error not the kid, so she didn’t penalize as much as something else.