[QUOTE=FatCatFarm;7864311]
While I do love eventing and eventers, and everyone’s can do attitude, I am going to start concentrating on show jumping as I am feeling spread too thin with all of my other commitments. I have found it’s just too hard for me to master three disciplines/skill sets and think I will be happier trying to be good at just one. Here’s hoping anyway.[/QUOTE]
Funny you should say this.
For various reasons, after dedicating most of my adult life to the sport of eventing (rider, groom, sometimes coach, on and on), after a bad fall and some time to think, I have chosen to move into the Eq and jumper rings. Part of the side benefit of that decision is definitely the easing of pressure to get really good at all three phases. I still do good flatwork, but I’ve taken the pressure off of my horse to try and make him something he’s not (a dressage horse). We aren’t having to do all the galloping and conditioning that it took, even for a little TB, to stay safe at prelim+, and are now just focusing on our jumping. He’s happier and more relaxed, and I am, too.
I had a lot of fun eventing and am proud of the horses I made in that sport. But I am just as happy to pursue other things now and focus on other aspects of my riding (and my life. Having an UL horse, even just a baby UL horse, takes A LOT of time).
But, like I said in my post from yesterday, everyone’s experience is going to differ a lot on what their world view is. My friend, an accomplished h/j rider, did not enjoy her foray into eventing. She didn’t encounter the warm, welcoming community that is often touted.
As an eventer turning jumper, yeah, I miss ride times. But I love the ability to say “Oh, that sucked. Let’s enter the next class and see if we can fix it.” Eventing can be pretty frustrating with only one shot per phase per show. You have a bad dressage test, show jumping round, or xc, that’s too bad, so sad. At most h/j shows you can find something else to enter and try and fix a problem instead of letting it fester.
And it isn’t just the hunter kids getting bought the fancy horses. A lot of juniors in eventing end up sitting on some pretty spectacularly made horses, or at least VERY fancy ones. Heck, there’s a young girl in my barn who’s family just bought her an FEI level dressage horse. She’s only gone up to First Level. I have no problems with that. You still have to learn to ride those horses (and those fancy, made horses don’t always equal easy).
The sports are different and attract different types of people. They both have their demons. They both have their shining bright spots. We can all stand to learn a lot from ALL the different sports. And we could all stand to realize that most people who willingly spend gobs of money on a horse show of any variety are doing it because they just want to have fun. Their fun might be playing in the little white box, nailing 8 perfect fences, or galloping cross country…but, at the end of the day, all they want is a chance to spend the day showing off their favorite being in the world- their horse.