I literally was about to ask “who hurt you?” If someone did, then I am very sorry, but I know that it is not true of the majority. If they didn’t, then you are just coming in here to trash BNTs with no first hand evidence.
To the OG post, I personally would feel more comfortable using a few small studs than risk my horse’s confidence jumping on uncertain footing. That said, unless it is slippery, I would probably just go without studs.