I recently bought a horse and boarded her where I always ride when I was in the lesson program. However, the trainer I had, who is actually very nice otherwise, always seem to impose on me and my horse.
Examples–
- If I can’t come out and ride my horse, she will automatically assume that she will do a training ride on her, even though I ride 5 days a week!!! My mare does not really need an extra training ride!!!
- Excessive emails about events. Seriously I occasionally like to go foxhunting but not crazy about it and I kept getting all these event notices every week.
- I feel like I need permission to do a lot of things with my horse while I am somewhat in the darkness about his care–shoeing schedule etc.
It’s okay if I have endless funds to do all the things and lessons and training rides etc. but I don’t and a lot of the time I feel imposed on to spend my $$$
I’m switching barn anyways but does it happen to anyone else when your trainer forces lessons or training rides on you and your horse??? I’m looking for some insights to deal with these sticky situations.