If we aren’t allowed to at least reference the Iverness problem please delete.
Here’s the deal: I recently started riding a different, wider (not severely but noticeable) horse as mine died. This “new” horse is basically free leased until I am ready for the next one. So the main problem is I now have a painful netherland. I had some mild issues before with my horse and same saddle if I went on long rides (2 hour trials) but not as painful as I feel right now at my desk. I know I likely don’t have the best of positions riding and did consult the Google and tried tucking my pelvis under in my chair just now. That was uncomfortable to my back, maybe my muscles are weak who knows.
The reason I am thinking the saddle could be cause is a friend rode my horse a few times over the years in my saddle and complained about the same issue. She started riding as soon as she could walk and took lessons from lots of different trainers. Her exact words concerning my saddle were “you like to really sit forward don’t you, because that saddle forces you to sit forward I can’t sit back and I don’t know how you ride in it”. I thought nothing of it as I was not experiencing those issues at the time. Now I am and really just want to sit on an ice pack! I do not have boils or bleeding or chaffing issues, just the pain. It isn’t severe but it is uncomfortable for sure.
For reference I have an old, but only used lightly (2 times per week max) for 4 years Throroughgood Maxim. I love that it is synthetic and it fit my horse well. It fits the “leased” horse fine too but it is not fitting me! I have no problem looking for a new one and having it fitted once I get another horse but that will be months as I have to pay off the vet school first. So in the mean time what can I do. Also when I start to look do any of you have suggestions for synthetic English saddles that you like. I just trail ride and do some very basic dressage training ( with another experienced rider), no showing.