My post today is partly sheer joy and partly frustration which I think is probably not even that warranted but I’m not sure.
I just moved my 4 year old out of training / rehab back closer to home- new barn and new trainers.
Here is the joyful parts: He came out of training looking much stronger after starting the summer off with a minor stifle injury. While we are not done with the rehab, It sure looks like we are on the right track! The purpose of him going to training was pretty simple I wanted him to have more exposure. Obviously his workload was pretty light but in the last month of training she was able to take him on some light trail rides and trailered him to a few other properties for a light school. This definitely showed because he walked off the trailer at the new barn like an old pro. Settled right in.
We are working with two trainers at the new barn. One is an Eventer. For the month of September she is riding him twice a week and then I have a lesson with her once a week. In addition to that we are working with a dressage trainer who is just debuting at Grand Prix but is also extremely great with young horses. For now I am just doing a lesson once a week with her.
I was able to watch the Eventer to the first ride And I was so impressed at how my 4-year-old did in a very busy ring which could have been very spooky but he really held it together and tried hard for her. She is a very soft and quiet rider and very big on praising and building confidence for the young horse.
Then I was able to have a great dressage lesson with the dressage trainer. I have known about this trainer for a while but this was my first time working with her and she was lovely. I felt she had high standards and definitely worked on us enough to get our money’s worth but was really warm and friendly. I immediately felt comfortable with her and I also felt the same on my 4-year-old! Just a really nice lesson. With improvement and just left feeling very happy.
Now for the part that is kind of joyful and kind of frustrated although I think maybe I’m being ridiculous.
I had my first lesson with the Eventer. She definitely pushed me a little bit in a different way than the dressage trainer did. Honestly she gave the type of lesson I’ve had with other eventers so I shouldn’t be surprised. I left feeling a bit frazzled and frustrated but I don’t know if it’s warranted. I think part of it is because I messed up the lesson time so I had to scramble to get ready. I was super impressed that my young horse still handled that well and was a cool cucumber despite my rushing and just hopping on. She wanted us to work on the spooky side of the ring and keep his attention. I felt I did this really well and that my horse also did very well. And she worked on getting a little bit more of a connection which I think we also did good. Then we worked on going through poles, which the setup was a little spooky to him at first so he got a little sucked behind my leg but by the end he was going fairly happily through them and I believe we did that well. Then she wanted me to canter and get up into two point. I’m not really sure why but this threw me through a loop. At first I thought she was instructing me to go through the poles at the canter which I did not feel ready for it all. Instead what she wanted was us to go through the poles at the trot and then immediately ask for the canter. I understand why she wanted me to do this but my dressage rider brain did not like this. I’m the type that wants to prepare prepare prepare. Lol. She also wanted me to get up into my two point and my dressage saddle and I just felt really awkward and slightly worried that I might upset my horse.
So the first canter transition was a bit yucky. The second and third one we’re better although not great. But we did it and he was a good boy so we ended there. So I’m not sure why I left feeling the way I did. I think I didn’t like rushing into my lesson and then I felt a little vulnerable towards the end of the lesson with someone I didn’t know. It honestly I just felt embarrassed that that first kind of transition was yucky.
So to recap I think my horse is an amazing boy and although I’m so far from perfect I think overall I’ve done a decent job this past week. I need to try and let the little mistakes go. I didn’t ride all summer so of course I’m not at my best but I’m not at my worst either.