First, thanks to those who care to read my rambling questions.
Second, background:
I live in Germany and will probably be staying here for a few more years. I have an incredible horse who I left at home to wait for me. I cannot bring him to Europe - lifestyle and location make this a poor investment of resources. Said wonderful horse is living in luxury at a friend’s place in Ocala. Really, he is in a better situation than I ever imagined. He isn’t ridden (this is a racing oriented facility), but he is handled multiple times a day and is in no way just “out to pasture”. We planned on sending him back to school for a bit before coming home, just to knock the cob webs off. He is the kind of horse who can sit and be the same after ages. I don’t know what I want to do though. We did low level eventing before I moved and I always planned on going further with him (Lord knows I was the only thing ever holding him back, as I was told time and again by pros) but then life just got in the way. I’m at peace with this fact, if we never go past where we have already been in jumpers and eventing. I have a toddler and another baby on the way and my goals have shifted to dreams of pony club and ponying shetlands off the side of my 18h beast and the like (ha!). But I want something when we head home. Some direction; being without horses (especially MY HORSE and our relationship)has been such a challenge these years. BUT, I don’t have the desire or time to drive to far away lessons ever week, to spend time in the arena daily working on something, in short - to isolate myself from my family and make my goal exclusive (via competition, etc). This works for some families, but I see something different for mine. My husband is horsey, and so far my kid is too, but time is going to be a difficult resource to manage for the next 10 years at best
So, my mind regularly returns to hunting. I cubbed and hilltopped with a previous horse a few times with Belle Meade in GA - I really liked it! I bought a subscription to use the facilities at Foxboro in Thompson, GA with this horse and had a blast. The folks at Foxboro openly admired him and asked if I’d ever sell him, so they must have seen something. So in short, hunting calls to me because it is an organized riding event with a sense of community that I believe would fit into my life and what it has become, and I really think that it would welcome my husband and kids as well. (here is an opportunity to correct me if you think I am wrong)
So, I think I would like to take the plunge. I know how to initiate the process once we settle back in the states (most likely in the Mid Atlantic area), but what about my horse? I wonder, can you send a horse to foxhunting school? Part of me cringes at the thought of not doing the training myself, but then my new perspective steps in and realizes I’d rather use my time to be out and doing instead of banking on uncertain opportunities to do the work myself. That said though, seems like you could ruin a good hunt mount in a heartbeat if they fell into the wrong hands. Are there trainers who teach horses how to properly take fences and terrain in a foxhunting environment? How do you go about this process? Why do I feel like it would be riskier than sending a horse to an eventing trainer?? (This is a stupid fear, I know!)
ok, I must end abruptly here because nap time has run on too long and I need to wake my little prince! I look forward to any and all advice you can give, and if you have answers to questions I should have asked and didn’t, please provide them Thanks!
If you made it through this ramble and still feel like contributing, thank you for your time! I have time to consider possibilities but I want to have a plan for my boy. He is really a once in a lifetime mount, and I don’t want to waste any more time once we head home.