On the contrary. As long as you and your horse are clean, tidy, and making an effort to be well presented you can wear whatever works for you and whatever you can afford. I think this goes triple for kids, because they’re just going to grow out of it anyway. When I was a kid, I was taught that cleaning all of your tack up meticulously, shining your paddock boots, wearing garter straps neatly tucked in, putting your hair in a net, keeping your show clothes clean, and showing up early to bathe any green off your pony and have them dry in time for your class is how you show respect for the judge, your trainer, the show management, your horse, and yourself.
But no, the outfit does not make the rider. When I was trying to do all of this in hand-me-down clothes at shows as a kid there were obviously rich kids who had Tailored Sportsman breeches (back when they were in the prime of their coolness) and new custom or semi-custom boots. However, on the other side of the fence, there was a rag-tag little boy who used to show up on the weekends in a rusted-out stock trailer with an old man and an Appaloosa. That boy looked a hot mess and if anyone could have gone fast enough for no one to see it, it would have been him. (You could still tell…but that may have been because there were lots of stares hoping that Appy wouldn’t catch a toe…if it did, they were going down.) That little boy was Kent Farrington.
However, I will still maintain that the reason you see riders up their fashion game as they go up the levels is because a lot of what goes into the more expensive brands is meant to serve a purpose to riders. Those rubber sticky knee patches you see on Animo, Equiline, GhoDoh, and Cavallaria Toscana breeches freaking work! Way better than suede. I love being able to wash the removable liner in my Samshield helmet. Or replace it when it gets squished down and I feel like my helmet isn’t fitting as tight as I like. Samshield will take my helmet in if I fall and hit my head, thoroughly assess if it’s been damaged, and either fix or replace it.
And it’s a perfect demonstration as to why we need to separate H/J from the jumpers in this thread. Last I checked no one really over analyzes clothing in the jumper ring. Hunters? Well clearly, there are posts that say as much.
And oooooo gurl! What jumper rings have you been at? It’s more fun then the hunters in my part of the world, since you can do so much more. How much bling pushes you over the line to tacky? What coat color can you wear that’s unique, but not gaudy. Oh my gawd did you just see someone in pink/purple polos/boots and matching pad carrying a sparkle heart crop? I’m fairly surprised there’s a self-respecting trainer that would let someone walk out of the barn like that. And if someone where’s a dark thong under their white breeches…lawd have mercy!! Even the nice Safe Sport moment “back in the day” where the jump crew was very happy to see that the plastic surgeon’s attractive wife was wearing a birth control patch on her bum…through her white breeches. (As if that would increase their chances?)