Just... ugh

Needed to share this somewhere. My parents have two draft horses (a mare and gelding) who were living out retirement on their property. Basically, it’s a retirement dream for horses - large varied pastures where they can live off only grass late spring-early fall. All but one are almost fully enclosed by woods (this will be important).

Earlier in the summer, the gelding wasn’t looking great. He was getting skinny, but he was also in his mid-twenties, so weight is harder to keep on. Then when I saw them for the first time since then a few weeks ago, he was looking great again! Figured there would be a few more years left before my parents lost one or both of them and had to figure out what they wanted to do with the property.

This morning, I got the call from my mom that they had both needed to be put down. Somehow they managed to break through the fence towards the back of the property near the woods and walked their way into a swamp and couldn’t get out. This was during the day sometime and my parents discovered them when they went to feed in the afternoon. I’m not sure exactly how they were stuck, but my parents and the vet decided there was no way to get them out without hurting them and at their age, it wasn’t worth it. They put them down there and are going to have an excavator come out this week to get the bodies properly buried.

I don’t know why I’m sharing this, maybe looking for others who understand how animals somehow manage to get into exactly what’s bad for them? They should have had at least a few more years left. The only bright side is that these two horses who were together all their lives didn’t have to live more than a few moments without. It’s just going to be hard now going home and not having any horses around. They were the last of my family’s herd that had been there for 30 years.

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Omg that is so sad. I’m sorry for your loss of your beloved horses. Maybe there is a small bit of consolation that they went together so neither would miss the other? We should all be so lucky when it’s our time.
Godspeed sweet horses :racehorse:

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I am really sorry to read this, condolences to you and your family. I am sure it was a very difficult situation to see through.

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So sorry to read this.
But, as others said, they were together & hoping they comforted each other until their release.
{{HUGS}} to your folks & you.

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I’ve heard of something like this before- the horse wasn’t old (maybe 8?) and they just couldn’t get him out. I’m so sorry, this is a terrible way to lose horses.

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How awful for all of you. I’m so sorry this happened.

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I’m so so sorry. It sucks to lose them so suddenly. It’s good they were there together and hopefully they didn’t suffer. :heart:

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I am so very sorry for your loss.
How tragic.

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I’m so incredibly sorry. At the barn where my friend rode when she was attending Syracuse University, a horse escaped the barn during a period of time so cold they weren’t turned out (the barn was heated). The horse ran over a frozen lake and fell in. He survived, but it was touch-and-go. It was like, “of all places for him to run, why across a lake,” in addition to everything else.

Just sharing because…horses. I’m glad your parents’ horses had a great life with them until the end.

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I’m so sorry💔

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I’m so sorry.

I don’t know why horses always seem so hell-bent on self-destruction. An old friend raised Icelandics several years ago; she had one get out into the middle of their pond and fall through the ice overnight. Sadly, the horse was already gone by the time she went to feed the next morning.

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I am so sorry to hear this, but I am a little relieved that they went together.

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I am very sorry that you all had to go through this.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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Such an unexpected and sad closing of the chapter will take time to get used to. You share here because we get it. Hugs to you.

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Horses! I’m sad it has come to this but it’s good that your parents were able to.act quickly.

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Thank you all for the kind words! Horses certainly have a penchant for destruction, but we love them, crazy tendencies and all. Going home will be different for a while and we’ll miss them.

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