[QUOTE=kupeski;8787249]
Thank you everyone so much for your input! You’re really giving me a lot to think about in my riding. Scribbler is right that I point my toes out- my right more than my left, due to my broken femur. I do post a little exaggerated on him, compared to other horses, and drive with my hips more so I’m not constantly kicking him.
I was actually told from a H/J trainer earlier in my riding career to keep my toes pointed out a little more to keep the contact with the back of my calf, but that was ages ago but has possibly stuck with me.
I’m definitely going to talk to some people about lunge lessons and look more into OT. As for saddle, it’s a HDR Lexus (I believe). It doesn’t appear to have blocks nearly as big as other saddles I’ve seen.
Here are videos from about 5 months ago in an AP with stirrups set closer to my hunter length
Video 1
Video 2
And a 7month old video of me riding an OTTB, who is much more forward than my little pony
OTTB Video
Forgive the horrible downward, He really got heavy and didn’t want to stop[/QUOTE]
Thank you for the videos! This is really interesting.
I am seeing the same issues in your hunt seat videos. At the canter on both horses, you aren’t sitting the canter, but you also aren’t doing a stable two-point. Your butt is slamming the saddle at every step. Also, your toes are tending to point down, and definitely point straight out, at times 90 degrees from the horse’s sides. Particularly on pony, when you add leg, your leg comes back and sometimes your toe drops. The aid for “forward” should be leg on, leg stays in place at the girth, so that leg back can be used for other moves as you advance. Can you try to always drop your leg before you add it? Drop, squeeze in, rather than back and squeeze up.
And I wonder if you are also balancing a bit on the reins? Pony is definitely going around inverted, not really using his hind end, both with the dressage saddle and the jump saddle.
Are you working with a dressage instructor? Can you get pony to start stretching to the bit, relaxing his back, so he can start to step up under himself? That will require however having an independent seat so that you can give the reins for him to take, without losing your balance.
You said pony doesn’t want to jump. If you were able to fix his own balance, as well as yours, he might turn out to enjoy it. I don’t see any of the basics in place for jumping in these videos, so maybe that’s the problem, rather than the pony being unsuited. In that case, it can be fixed!
That said, is part of your problem with your leg that pony is on the small end for your leg? Do you feel you have to reach back with your leg in order to contact his side at all?
My friend with the uneven hips has further damage done to her position when she was riding with a crank and spur dressage coach, who had her put all her weight on the reins to “go round.” This led to her tipping forward, plus having to use so much leg that her heel was always creeping up towards the rear corner of the saddle pad (at its worst, much worse than you!) because she was using so much pressure on the reins, the horse was shutting down and needed to be kicked at every step. Slightly different problems, but to point out that you can get position problems from the particular way you ride a particular horse.
I wouldn’t worry about the direction your toes are pointing right now (in or out), but would want to concentrate on keeping them up, and your leg below you, not sliding back. Try to drop you leg every time before you ask forward. And try to give a little more with the reins, so the horse can move forward. What happens if you ride pony on a slightly loose rein trot/canter? You shouldn’t be having to use your leg constantly to maintain a gait.