Hey everyone, I’m new to this site so I’m sorry if this is in the wrong category or anything else haha.
Anyways, so I started riding about 3 months ago. I got a job mucking stalls, feeding and turning out at a stable because of my long time love of horses. I got a late start at 16, better late then never I guess. I’ve been taking one lesson a week however felt that it was not really enough. I talked to my trainer and I just started leasing an 17.3 Irish draft. He’s more of a beginner horse, basically bombproof, and I know enough that my trainer thought it would be a good option to get saddle time and more experience. Right now I’m just walk trotting when I ride 4x a week, because we are still working on getting the canter. I’m having a huge problem though, I’m having such a hard time getting and keeping him trotting!
My first few rides on him were great, and I’ve seen his owner buzz around on him, even jump him 2’6+ jumps, so I know that he’s not too lazy and that its a problem with me instead. Of course you would think I should go to my trainer, however coincidentally whenever I take a lesson in front of her, I do fine and have very little trouble keeping him going.
However now I’ve stated to ride alone, and can barely get him trotting. It’s so frustrating because I really need to work on my posting, posture, position, ect, but I can’t because I have to try so hard to keep him going. When I do get him trotting, I begin posting and my leg comes off and he slows right to a walk. (That’s a whole other thing I have to work on, keeping leg on while I post). If he doesn’t pick up a trot, he just picks up a very fast walk and I can’t get him to break, even with pressure, kissing/clucking and a kick or two. I think some of the problem is when I first started riding him, if I squeezed really hard and even gave a kick or two and he still wouldn’t budge, I would get frustrated and release. I’m sure this translated to him that if he just waits it out eventually I’ll take the pressure off and he won’t have to do anything. I know, I hate myself too!
So what should I do? I cannot use Spurs yet as I am still focusing on keeping a quiet leg and wouldn’t want to give him Spur rubs. I also can’t use a crop, I havnt really asked my trainer why, but I think it has something to do with the owners wishes as she doesn’t ride with one…?
I’m just not sure what to do at this point. He’s such a great horse and a good mover, when he’s actually moving. It’s not my hands, because oddly enough I have extremely quiet hands (according to two different trainers at my barn). I even tried no sturrip work and he still didn’t want to trot. Did my release of pressure before he moved really mess it up that bad?
Any advice or tips would be great. And if you have any further questions just let me know.
Thanks in advance!!