Thank you for all the replies. I’ll reply/Comment on various questions:
My Trialer is a 2000 4 star warmblood size straight load with a tack room. It has a center partition that can be removed, butt bar, 2 doors in the back and a ramp that goes over them. IT’s a good size trailer, My mare is 16.3 hh with room to spare. Looked perfect until she redecorated the inside. I pull it with a F250.
She ties in stall, cross ties and to trailer quietly. She has actually self loaded this past sunday. My trailer buddy and I were not sure if it was my or her horse kicking during the drive as her horse kicks too.
The most “issues” I had loading was that I had to lead her in. She would stop for a second to sniff at a new trailer, but never refused. She never balked, ran backward or acted upset when loaded. I could lead her in and she would stand quietly and wait for me to put the butt bar up. I don’t tie a horse in the trailer until the butt bar is up. I also untie before taking the butt bar down. She unloads quietly, usually doesn’t do the “butt bar bump” when I’m unhooking, she’s pretty quiet when loading and unloading, doesn’t fly off the trailer either. She is the same going on first or last. I’m a careful driver, and do my best not to take sharp turns, etc. Never had issues w other horses either.
The first time she really slammed around in the trailer was on the highway, I thought I was losing my transmission, realized what I was doing and ended up taking backroads to the lesson. Realized it was her (she had been on the route to lessons before). 2nd time was when she ended up straddling the partition, she threw the fit about 2 minutes into the drive that was 30 minutes long.
So far she’s ok with a buddy. I have thought about swinging the center partition to the side. She has literally kicked my back windows out…so doing that does worry my for not having a butt bar up. Or keeping the back uppder doors open during trailering, but worry about the highway too. I am looking at trailer cams to watch her though.
I think part is just being a temper tantrum. I have worked on her not being herd sour. When I first got her, she got very attached to a mare. I threw my gelding into the turn out mix (as it was just 2 mares). He seemed to keep her in line. I worked with her on that I am the one that matters and not the other horses. It has worked because she no longer makes a peep when I pull her out of the pasture. She’ll neigh in the stall on occasion, but as soon as she goes in the cross ties, she’s quiet until I’m done with her. So I wonder if there is just training I need for her to get over herself.
I’m still trying to figrue if the hobble or kicking chain would work.