[QUOTE=Rescuer;8291552]
Ditto what a lot of people have already said. My horse has a similar jump (though the after kicks are not so frequent - usually only kicks when we’re schooling XC - doesn’t do it so much in the ring). He also is one who will jump the standards over a small fence if he decides there’s anything looky about it.
What worked for us: Jump out of a forward canter or gallop, try to avoid those tight takeoff spots as it will cause the accentuated bascule with them having to pop up rather than jump across the jump. Hold your release for a stride after the fence to prevent your body coming back to early - good old equitation in the air - butt out, chest centred over your leg.
I also had to upgrade my saddle to one with most importantly a better balance point for MY confirmation, and for bonus it has stickier leather and back blocks. If you feel like you are fighting to keep your leg under you (which will prevent you from keeping your body in the right place in the air and on the landing side), check your stirrup length first, then your overall base of support strength (see if some no stirrup work improves anything) - and worst case if none of that helps - might be time to try some different saddles. I was shocked and amazed trying a different brand saddle one lesson and how easy it was to keep my leg where it needed to be and therefore keep control of my body in the air when my horse threw a big jump at me.[/QUOTE]
I think the saddle is a big issue. Unfortunately she has the withers from hell and finding a jump saddle that fit her was not easy. The saddle i have now has massive front blocks and I can’t raise my stirrups another hole or my knee would go over them. I think it definitely could be an issue, at the moment one I can’t afford to solve.
I think the riding forward is definitely something I need to worry on, I tend to think she’s going to take a large spot and push for the short one and then well it isn’t so pretty. She the nicest horse I’ve ever owned and I just don’t want to ruin her!