These are, inarguably, the #1 thing my horse and I are struggling with. They’re also the #1 thing I want to somehow tackle. I never had troubles with flying changes when I rode English, even with my younger horses. Some horses are more willing to change, just as some can be more willing to learn any other maneuver. I don’t think horses genuinely want to do the wrong thing, they want to do the easiest thing, and I doubt any enjoy getting “in trouble”. I don’t think my horse’s problem is physical, I believe it’s mental. We have all the working pieces separately: shoulder control, hip control, bend, softness. She can simple change very easily. Her lope departures are great 98% of the time, the other 2% she tries to trot first and we correct that. We work plenty on lateral work, lead changes at the walk, lead changes at the trot.
I know I’m not the only person to struggle with lead changes on her. I’ve watched a couple trainers try, some with more and some with less success. The way she seemed to most often get the change was to yield the shoulders away and push the hip through to the new inside direction. It’s not always successful, at least not with me, and it’s quite a bit of work. I don’t know that it helps her mentality about the change, so much as it puts her in a position where changing is physically the easiest.
I’m sure there is something lacking in my riding, perhaps it’s compounding with her feelings about changing. Maybe it’s that I’m not as quick as a trainer may be, or as clear as they can be. However, I do also have the thought that I’d like her to change, stress free, without having to make the change happen one singular way, when it’s hot but not too hot outside, and, and, and. The goal is to ride her one handed in a bridle, which means the use of direct rein to aid in setting her up for a change won’t be there anymore.
Perhaps through repetition, even if it’s a lot of bridling and a lot of moving body parts around, will mean she’ll “get it”. But I also wonder if all the micromanaging and setting up may mean without the rider always asking the same way, every time, she won’t. As I said, it seems all the parts are there. It’s at that one pivotal moment when the lead change is cued, that the head comes up, the neck gets stiff, and the body control goes. I think, though I could be wrong, if she were relaxed and that stiffness didn’t occur, she could get the lead changes quite readily.
So, after this absolute novel (yikes, sorry! - trying my best to paint a picture)… Any suggested exercises? Folks who have experienced similar? I know many horsemen, ones with good reputations too, have admitted to struggling with changes. Many have said that lead changes are an art form. I like to think these things when I’m feeling especially down about this topic. Part of me feels we should have gotten them by now, though using "should"s is not always the best thing to do. It is starting to get to me because I haven’t struggled to this extent with this before, and feel it brings my entire riding ability into question. Probably another poor train of thought.