Well, i have 9 horses from them…so i know their rules. Their focus is finding a ‘forever home’. That’s their deal. So if you’re not into that, then you and they are discordant. It was worth suggesting as she’s quite young and seems to check your boxes, physically.
And for what it’s worth, you actually can rehome one of their horses with their approval. (case in point: a good friend of mine was alllOVER a young gelding. I adopted him for her, he grew up here in our herd, while she took riding lessons near her home). Longmeadow knew of her(my friend) from the beginning, and gave tacit approval for an eventual rehome. Now, 3 yrs later, i’ve trained him/she doesn’t want (horse care too expensive in $ and time) So he’s here to stay. No big deal, i like him just fine, but he wasn’t my pick. He is my western dressage prospect. (HE’s the one my coach said i could sell for 50k lol). For the Humane Society, any new owner has to fill out the entire application and pass muster, but it’s doable for you to adopt and not return to them if you outgrow the horse. The one MAIN big non-negotiable deal is no breeding. They are serious about this. (i once was going to adopt a couple of hens from them but they would not allow because they knew i had a rooster or two)
Most of the horses that come-back to them come back with problems. They are returned in worse condition than when they left the first time. And i think it’s a very good thing that the humane society welcomes/requires them to come back. As, they’d prob be in the slaughter pipeline and Longmeadow is actually responsible (they are the ones that mis-placed the horse!) And, the people can’t sell/rehome because the horse is too problematic. The adoptee was just not able to train/ride/feed/handle…something like that. So when you see one that has been returned, the poor thing usually comes with a caveat of non-rideable. (i adopted two like this…for pasture ornaments and because i feel like with the wonderful horses i’ve gotten from them for basically ‘free’ that are excellent good quality riding horses, i OWED them).