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Do you know anything about Toy Box? They aren’t far from Princeton, I have heard decent things about them but do not have direct experience.[/QUOTE]
Toy Box is in Ringoes, so completely out of the Pennington/Princeton area that the OP was referring to. The drive might not be too bad depending on the time of day. The owner is an eventer and the barn is on the smaller side in terms of programs. A friend of mine checked it out fairly thoroughly for boarding and really like the facility, but ended up moving out of state.
Maple Run, also in Ringoes, has lesson horses and a lot of eventing enthusiasts. I don’t know what their program is like now that their manager has left to start her own place (with her parents’ help). They are a smaller facility so may not have as much of a group vibe with kids, but worth checking out if you don’t mind a bit longer drive.
OP, I think a lot has to do with what kind of program you want to be in. Do you want there to be a lot of kids your daughter’s same age or level to provide a lot of camaraderie? Do you want to be going to a lot of shows? Or mostly stay at home learning with a core group and maybe only do a bit of traveling off property? That may dictate in which direction you go.
Duncraven has a large program and hosts a lot of nice shows. It’s a nice facility and would be a very reasonable drive from Princeton. They are on the expensive side though. In addition to full board they also require a minimum expenditure per horse per month which can be fulfilled many ways, either lessons or services. So you would be paying out at least $1400 per month once you got a pony. It might be a good place to learn depending on what they have for beginner lesson horses and ponies.
send me a PM if you;d like more recommendations in Ringoes or elsewhere in Hunterdon county.