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Wish, I hope, a tide will turn soon for you and you will be able to support yourself in your horsemanship goals.
Keep in mind, experienced eyes on ground, when learning, are your best option! Find a mentor at least.
In the meantime:
Local library is your friend- books and DVDs.
Also, check this site for horse DVD rentals https://www.giddyupflix.com/howitworks.php
Jackie Cochran advised you on using search feature of COTH. Among others, you can find a lot of information about different approaches to ground work, in-hand work, and liberty training.
Since you are not involved in any formal training (which I would, of course, recommend, 4H or Pony Club are great US programs for youth), you might try to see, if the following books/authors could be of some help to you (in addition to some that were already recommended):
“True Horsemanship Through Feel” by Bill Dorrance, Leslie Desmond
It is possibly the best American book written on feel and basic training. It follows western tradition. Mr. Dorrance passed long time ago, but Leslie Desmond still has a webpage with published articles further elaborating on ideas from the book.
anything by Mark Rashid, especially “Horses Never Lie”
Mark Rashid writes in a story-teller format, which is easy to follow, while still very educational. Search him on the Internet. There are many interviews and a couple of people keep blogs about their work with him, most notably ayearwithhorses.blogspot.com
For liberty work, I would recommend
Naked Liberty by Carolyn Resnick (book)
Introduction to the Waterhole Rituals by Carolyn Resnick (DVD)
Check her website http://www.dancewithhorses.com/index.php or just look her up on the net. Don’t forget youtube.
Her website includes tips on what to look for and what to be careful about.
I did the liberty training, when our horse was unrideable for about three of four months due to injury he acquired in the pasture (a blow to the back from another horse).
As an European and a person, who grew up in a riding club, I had experience with in-hand work already, but not liberty training.
I read her book carefully, later purchased the DVD, read her blog entries on her website, and followed her steps and ideas to the best of my ability.
I always wore helmet, gloves, and carried a dressage whip and/or driving whip, when working at liberty (I found longe whip to be too difficult to operate under the circumstances. C. Resnick uses reed).
In addition to liberty training, when he could not be ridden, I started him with trick training, I took him on long walks on trails in hand (rope halter, long lead rope, helmet, gloves, and dressage whip), and I continued his in-hand education.
It helped our relationship quite a bit. When I got on him again, he was even better than before. I think, it was because I developed better feel for him in those months we spent on ground.
Remember, if you are “going it alone,” you have to be twice as careful! When you read up on a new idea, investigate further.
Stay with this forum and learn to operate in its world. This forum is filled with many serious amateurs (various disciplines or just pleasure riders), who might be able to give you a good advice, even if it sometimes comes peppered with harsh words, irony, or sarcasm.[/QUOTE]
Thank you!I will definitely look up those books!