Talking to my real life horse people outside of COTH- every single person agreed the horse flipping and lickin’ comments were disgusting. These aren’t beginners bopping up and down on Pookie once a week with no experience in the real horse world. These are people with at least 20 years or more of experience showing and riding H/Jers. They aren’t soft either.
Was KMP telling the student to flip the horse? No. Did she tell the student to beat the horse? No. She told the kids that that’s what she would have done if the horse would have behaved like that although they wouldn’t have “dared” to because she would have done the aforementioned actions. (sorry weirdly worded sentence!) What does this imply to me and prehaps someone else who isn’t as familiar with KMP? To me this implies that she knows the horse is scared of her and it knows that it will suffer severe consequences for any “bad behaviour”. Well that’s a fantastic way to train.
Additionally, we really don’t know why the horse didn’t whoa or do whatever it was it was supposed to do… was it because of an ineffective rider, was it because the horse was new to the rider and the rider didn’t know all of its buttons, was the horse in pain, was the horse not properly schooled and was misunderstanding the aids? We have no idea. I don’t know- the first thing you go to isn’t generally- well you are weak - I’d flip him if that’d been me. If the kid isn’t listening, they need to be made clear to listen and repeat back what they are supposed to be doing- maybe it was the wind? I know I’m super deaf in the wind. If a kid is repeatedly not doing the right thing- figure out why. There is some miscommunication somewhere.
Her comment was just not constructive or useful in anyway and in the wrong hands have the potential to be dangerous and abusive.
I have no idea if KMP flips or beats horses. None… however, no matter how old and cranky you are, you need to be aware that if something is being streamed, what you say is out there for the whole world to see and critique and make judgement on- whether or not they are a very experienced horse person or Cheeto-fingers living in mom’s basement. Things can be assumed and taken out of context. People need to be careful. I had a co-worker (old and cranky) who was aghast that I carried a whip when I rode- it was unnecessary and even the slightest touch of a whip was abusive in her eyes. To her I was a horse abuser. That’s what the general public thinks. We need to be more aware of what’s coming out of our mouths even if we are not actually meaning what we are saying.