This is an awful topic to have for my first post on this site, but i’m at my wits end. I lost my one and only mare, my true heart horse, this past June. I still have no idea what to do with her belongings. I have been telling myself that with some time I’ll figure out the answer, but so far I’ve only come up with small ideas for specific pieces of tack. This is what i’ve come up with so far:
Hanging up her main double bridle and main snaffle bridle with her original bits.
I have her original halter from years ago and her special occasions/blingy one that she passed in. I was also thinking of hanging those up, but now I feel having 4 pieces of her head gear on the wall may be a little much? Any other ideas for those?
I also have her fun, very iconic pink polo wraps and white show wraps that I feel like I want to somehow display. Any suggestions for those would be greatly appreciated.
Now down to the tough stuff that i’m clueless about. I have acquired a very large quantity of tack and supplies over the years. Due to life changes I have recently moved twice and will be moving once more in about 6-9 months. I currently have two completely full tack trunks, about 7 large garbage bags, two suitcases full, and a large pile of loose blankets. I’m looking for advice from people who ended up keeping and storing a large quantity of their horses things after they’ve passed.
I’m currently sorting through everything now and there are definitely a few things that I have zero emotional attachment to (turnout boots she hasn’t worn in 3 years, reins I didn’t like, things I bought that didn’t fit her, etc.) What should I do with the other things? I have a different new to me double bridle that was going to be used in our upcoming show season. I have a drop noseband bridle that I had been playing around with which happens to be the last bridle I rode her in. There’s a large quantity of matchy-matchy tack that I have ridden her in over the years. Not to mention the large quantity of blankets she has, but she spent her last two winters naked so they haven’t been used in years, but they’re still hers.
I apologize for the long winded post, but i’m hoping a few of you could share your methods with coping and strategies of how you handled everything. There’s tons of articles online on how to cope with the emotional baggage, but none that talk about the physical baggage.