@Laurierace - oh yes, been under neuro’s care for 10+ years. Had a good one; she left town, unfortunately. They’re a mixed bag. Good ones are…somewhat helpful, for me. Bad ones, which I currently have…I’d be better off with a really good GP or nurse practictioner. Unfortunately, both of those that I used to know have also quit the biz. (I worked in medical in this area for many years.) Medical stuff just generally sucks. “Old fashioned” neuros who have a “I am the best and the brightest because I work with the brain” and can’t allow any room for a patient to self-advocate, especially with something like migraines…spare me 
But, I think I was more interested in looking at migraineurs’ plight as a whole than really talking about me per se. I was kind of dazzled that there’d never been a migraine discussion before (Is that really right?) It really is, still, a hidden sort of affliction, and I wonder if that is not the hardest part, emotionally, of coping with it - that people still don’t really understand what it is. There’s this, “ya, ya, it’s a really bad headache, I get it,” roll eyes thing, no matter how much you try to educate people, and I think it’s always going to be there, because no matter what, it’s just human nature for people to think, “You think you had a bad headache? Well, one time I had a headache so bad that…” I think migraineurs really tend to keep a lot to themselves, and don’t even ask for support, because their expectations are so different from people with almost any other kind of problem - and it’s because these kinds of reactions.
Although I have to say, everybody at the clinic was wonderful!!!
It could have been so much more stressful if I had not had GREAT support in that situation.