Have you contacted Conestoga Barns? They were the first quote I obtained and I’m still talking with them. 36 x 36 metal sided, metal roofed barn with three stalls, tack room and wash room was comparable-- $43k (not including site prep, water, electric). I’m curious about the pole barn option-- certainly seems attractive from a pricing standpoint.
Just received my quote from MD Barnmaster- sharing in case it is helpful for others. A two stall with tack room, wash rack, and 6’ overhang (shed roof off the front) shedrow is $31,000 delivered and installed on my site in Virginia-- does not include site prep, water, electric. Am in the process of seeing what the difference is in cost for switching the wash rack into a stall.