Okay people, help me out.
My young horse needs earplugs (would help me stay alive this winter). He has never had them inserted before. He has no intention of allowing me to reach into his ears and is highly offended at this notion. Otherwise, he is a sweetheart on the ground and will let me rub around his ears, forehead, poll, etc.
Trainer tried the “suck it up buddy, you’re getting earplugs” method and although he submitted and stopped fussing, it made him reactive to his ears for a week afterward. Trainer’s matter-of-fact method would probably work if she did it with him daily. But that’s not realistic so it’s up to me.
Slow desensitization? What I’ve been doing is to make him drop his head in response to pressure, praise, rub around his ears, wait til he really relaxes, let go. Problem is, at this rate, it’s going to be spring before he lets me put them in. I need them now. Thoughts appreciated!