For want of a better topic title, but… my trainer’s young horse sustained a catastrophic injury in turnout today. It was obviously unexpected and awful, I’m gutted for her. I want to put together a little something to leave on her tack box, just as a quiet “thinking of you” kind of gesture.
Right now I’m thinking a bottle of her favorite wine and a card, maybe some flowers too. Open to suggestions…
Actually that sounds perfect. I am no help!
Just that you think to do something for her will be meaningful. A card and wine would certainly be perfect. Other possibilities I thought of were a massage gift card (if she has a practitioner she uses regularly) or some “comfort sweets.”
Again, anything you do—particularly the card—will be appreciated, I’m sure.
I like your idea. Let me suggest that rather than a store-bought card, write your own note to let her know your thoughts in your own words.
As someone that’s had two young horses die suddenly (albeit 17 years apart), I’d say you’re spot on. A hand written note, some wine (or something stronger if that’s what she’d like), and flowers were always appreciated. I hate to ask, but if the horse didn’t make it, maybe also a lovely picture frame or gift card to a company that makes horse hair jewelry (if you know for sure she has hair). If it’s appropriate, maybe wait a few days and ask if you can come by to be with her. Some people I didn’t want to see, but two (horsey) people flew across the country to be with me and we just sat on the couch, drank, and watched crappy tv together. Having someone around that really gets it and was happy to just be there and do whatever was helpful - having someone around that wants to talk about the incident or the horse, not so much.
You are an amazing friend.
A nice note and whatever you gift I am sure will be greatly appreciated.
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