I’m sorry to hear it, I wouldn’t wish headshaking syndrome on anyone.
My last horse became a headshaker and I tried various things for almost 10 years.
His had no relevance to seasons, pollen, daylight/nightime, humidity or anything like that. I tried chiros, physios, saddle fitters, nose nets, many vets, xrays, scopes, ultrasounds, blood tests, steroid courses, herbalists, dentists, neck injections, probiotics, professional riders, acupuncturists, supplements, indoor/outdoor/stabled, steamed hay incase of mould/dust, nebulised drugs, experimental drugs from the vet, probably a bunch of other stuff that I’ve forgotten but you name it I tried it, even had his nasal mucosa biopsied. moved him to 4 different locations incase it was some sort of allergen around my city.
It was suspected from one vet that my horse had paresthesia as when the vet tried acupuncture on him, he got very itchy in places that horses apparently tolerate needles quite well.
There was one thing that I found would help my horse enough to keep him in light work. He had some other conditions so it was vet’s advice to keep him in light work if possible. What worked was a full head bonnet, a nose net and then a second nose net flipped upside down to cover the underside of the jaw. It took me a long time to realise that my horse mostly objected to sand that got flicked up by his front legs in the arena. He’d start to relax and lower his head but then he’d throw his head up and shake, lather/rinse/repeat. You couldn’t ever really pick up a contact with him as he’d gob himself in the bit when he’d shake and then he’d get unhappy about that too. On grass he was better, but walk him through a cloud of midge flies and he’d shake, so covering his entire head was the answer for him.
The nose nets had to be a specific type with mesh tight enough that sand or midges couldn’t get through. Not an equilibrium nose net, the holes are too big. If you can see through the net easily, the holes are too big.
I got two of them, sewed a strip of velcro around the long edge of each so that one would go on the top of his face and the other would go under his jaw, and then the masks would velcro together around his lips, creating a sort of barrier around his entire nose a bit like a dog muzzle. And it had to be about an inch or so longer so there was an airgap between it and his lips, so that he couldnt feel sand hitting the mask either. Yes he looked ridiculous, but he was happy enough to work for the first time in several years.
I wish I’d gotten a picture but unfortunately I didn’t.
What I used was a snuggy hood itch mask but with the eye strips cut off:
Then the bridle on top of that, then the nosenet muzzle attached to the bridle noseband. The bit rings would sit outside of the net, if that makes. Getting it on was a struggle as my horse hated his face being touched, but we came to an understanding provided a treat was involved immediately afterwards.
Edit: I also had some luck with an unjointed kimblewick bit but I didn’t try it long enough to really test it. But I believe one of the trigeminal nerve branches extends to the underside of the jaw so perhaps the mild pressure from the bit/chain was enough to calm the nerve, who knows?