Sorry to leave this thread hanging : had to deal with real life non-horsey issues. :mad:
Anyway, most definitely, the ideal horse will have some dressage training to assist me along the route, but nothing more that I would spoil by my inexperience. This tidbit of insight is appreciated because it does indeed narrow down the search when the time comes.
And DMK, what a gorgeous Fjord! I absolutely adore them the rare times that I’ve come across them.
Jealoushe, you really hit something on the head here: core muscles. I was sliced open 30 cm + and that cut through muscle so my core is an absolute mess. Add in muscle wasting from being ill, and there are days (like the last few days) where i feel like I will never ride again because I don’t feel as though I am making progress at physio. Sorry to rant on you… I am not ranting at you, just talking for no real reason.
I acknowledge the importance of the core for good stability in the saddle so that’s why I want to get this resolved further before I do hop on a horse. And with shorter legs and a bigger horse, I can definitely see the need to strengthen that area up to have a good equilibrium on the horse.
Perhaps the one thing that “scares” me most about dressage is that I worry my shorter legs won’t work as well in a longer stirrup on a bigger horse. We shall see.
What would really help is to be up on different horses and trying different frames out to see what feels comfortable.