So…I apparently misunderstood some things. The combined test is a different event than the one where people camp. The combined test is only about an hour away, and it’s June 30 (a week from tomorrow). We’re registered for it. 
Coach sent out test info, and today I stopped by the Dollarama, bought twenty dollars worth of little orange cones and white picket garden edging, and I “built” a dressage arena in the outdoor (barrel racing, haha!) arena at the barn. Practiced our dressage test three times. (Not in a row, but three times throughout our relatively easy flatwork today.
We’re ready! As ready as we’re going to get immediately. I’ll ride the test for my coach during a lesson, and then work on some stadium jumping (I’m still relatively green over fences; Winnie’s done more than me, but not by a lot). And in just over a week, we’ll see what there is to see.
Thanks for all of the responses!
@SuzieQNutter , test learned! It’s nice and simple, now I just have to ride it. Was fun practicing today. Realized we had never really worked on halting from the trot, but thanks to the good work Coach has me doing, all I had to do was THINK it, and Win halted nicely at X (or close to it, haha). And in relation to your last comment:
Sometimes, it’s a great ride and day even if you do fall off! Winnie and I did a jumper clinic (first for both of us, as so many things are) in April, and the second day, I fell off. My first unplanned dismount since 2004! But it was a GREAT day! My little mare tried her heart out, did everything I asked as best she could interpret it, and it was just bad/chickenshit riding that got me dropped. Hell, I even got my SUV and trailer stuck in the mud and needed help to get out, and it STILL was a good day. Because when Winnie B is on my team, I will NOT let life be anything but amazing. I’m one of the luckiest people on the planet to have this amazing girl.
@endlessclimb, thanks! I was a bit overwhelmed and wasn’t sure I was ready (battling some lower back pain, too, ugh), but after “building” our dressage ring and practicing today, I’ve realized it is JUST RIDING WELL, nothing more or less. We can go and try that, for sure. Will get Coach to be eyes on the ground to make sure we’re pretty round in our circles. Appreciate the info about turning tighter and drifting to center. I have NO background, so I’m not even sure I practiced correctly today, but it’s a start.
@2DogsFarm, hmmm, relaxing is part of our homework. :lol: My coach saw through me from our first ride with her. “I’m gonna need you to get that stick out of your ass and flop around a little, look like you’re having fun.” (I have a bad case of the tries-too-hards and get stiff). I’m only starting to learn JUST how much my TB mare “hears” when it comes to my body language. I only stopped stopping her with the reins a few weeks ago (I stop her with my mind now, lmao! but truly, it’s amazing what my seat and breathing can do). Coach has been wonderful and appreciates my sensitive mare, so we’re making incredible progress. Not sure about the test reading thing, but Coach said to memorize the test, and it’s pretty easy, so that’s what I’m doing. No start box stuff at the combined test, so one less thing to learn. Hoping the July event she mentioned is a full trial with XC. If not, we probably won’t go (sad, as hubby is willing to come with). My budget is REALLY limited for show stuff, and I’m not going to pay a few hundred for another combined with no real XC.
@bornfreenowexpensive The hubby and the pony are BOTH keepers! Lucky me! This will likely be the only combined test I ride in, as I can only do a few events here and there (budget), and XC is what pulled me in this direction. Like I said above, hoping the camp-out event in mid-July is a full trial! I’d probably rather just pay to school XC some more than do more combined tests with no real XC, when it comes to where I spend my limited dollars.
@Willesdon sadly no XC for this first one, but appreciate the advice! I definitely need to learn to ride more forward and go with my brave little mare for XC. The one excellent thing about being a mediocre adult re-rider is that I have SOOOOOO much room for improvement, lol!