just wanted to send you huge Jingles!!
Many years ago I had a youngster in AZ that presented very differently from your filly, but did ultimately get put down. I too was not able to be present as I was stationed/deployed overseas. It’s hard when you can’t be there personally, but you seem to have fabulous contacts in the community, so in that regard you’re very lucky.
In 2016 I had a foal born prematurely and she spent weeks at the clinic, with various things popping up, which were treated, only to have something else pop up. However, after all that heartache, she’s now a very healthy and precocious 2yo. Fillies are fighters, and I’m so glad yours seems to be doing better. I think you’re doing everything you can under the circumstances. Here’s a huge hug to you! (and just try to ignore all the rude and snarky people)