Ok so I am no where near a seasoned foxhunter, in fact I’m a youngun’ by most hunt standards, but I have intro’d over 20 horses to the field. These are things that have worked for me, with a variety of horses who were in their first 10 hunts.
1 - some horses want to face backwards. I don’t get it, but one would be a PITA in tight cover at a check unless I let him face the back. If he faced the horse behind him head on, he was a doll. Guess the view was better then an ass in his face?!
2 - grazing is fantastic for teaching standing still, relaxing and as a general reward. I’m in total agreement with rivenoak on this one. I’ll also pick apples and feed those when possible. Plus, if you are out for five hours, thats a long time for a horse to not have anything in their digestive tract, so grazing is also healthy I believe.
3- pick your battles. If your horse is standing but playing with a stick, pulling corn stalks out of the ground and playing catch with them, itching her nose on your boot, etc, then consider it a win. It may not be perfect but its better then a fight.
4- if she truly won’t stand, consider the ‘spin’ technique. Its the same idea as what Huntin’ Pony is talking about, but instead of ‘working’ in bigger shapes, I just opened by rein and spun the mare into my boot, alternating directions. The moment she stopped I’d release all rein and praise. The moment she so much as shifted her weight I’d open rein and push her into the spin until she stopped. By the end of the hunt I only had to open my rein and she’d stop, next hunt took a few circles but it really worked and mare went from marching through an entire 45minute check, to standing like a pro. This technique is also great because it focuses on redirecting the energy rather than pulling back, which is more likely to cause a fight. She was a quiet crossbred though, I’m not sure I’d try this with a hot tempered horse.
5- let horses be horses. Find a friend if you didn’t come with one, and if the horses are checked side by side and want to make faces at one another, I let them. I practice playing bumper cars at home with all my horses so even my mares tolerate their friends in their ‘personal space’ with no big antics. My young one wants to make faces with someone and it keeps her occupied so she stands still. Don’t let it escalate of course, no squeels, kicks etc but some will play or rub on each other and it does help them chill. But no rubbing on riders thighs, thats rude!
6- remember you are her main source of energy, so have a drink and chill out yourself. If you are tense or anxious that she won’t stand, your nailing your own coffin. Relax and don’t jump just because she shifts her weight. If you are chill, she’ll follow your lead in time. A few good runs and she’ll start to appreciate the break.