Hi friends!
I’m wondering if any of you have any magic tips on dealing with anxious feelings in your riding life. I’m developed into somewhat of a worrywart in the last couple years and after my return to riding I’ve found that it creeps into that part of my life more than I’d like. My brain always jumps to the what if’s, like what if you fall and get hurt, what if you get taken off with and lose control, what if horses bankrupt you even though you’re being financially responsible, etc.
I think part of these feelings come from the fact that I’ve become very aware of my own mortality and breakable-ness through getting hurt myself and seeing others get hurt. It doesn’t help that I’m returning to riding (finally, yay!) after another shoulder surgery, which has me all in my head at the moment about something happening and undoing all my good progress. I’m also a freshly minted adult, supporting myself fully with a good job and enough income to do the horse thing but struggle to fully enjoy it without worrying if I’m spending too much on horses - even if I am hitting all my other financial goals without strain.
Would love to hear if anyone else deals with the same worry brain and what you do to deal with it or turn it around. I want to enjoy this life while I can, and do the fun things without living in fear!