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I’ve been driving my 10 yr old Arabian gelding for little over a year now, and he’s doing super…except (there’s always an “except”)…when we stop at intersections or exiting driveways, he’s so impatient to keep moving, that he’ll either start to rear, back up, or try to turn sideways, anything BUT stand still. I suspect some of it’s excess energy and frustration, and for the record, he pulls this same sort of thing under saddle. Sometimes I have trouble getting him to move forward after this, he’d rather continue to back up (almost backed me into a lilac bush this past weekend), or turn around to go back the way we came. If voice commands fail, and reins on the rump don’t do it, I will apply the whip to cut through the mental fog he’d wrapped himself in, and then he’ll go forward.
Any ideas or clues on how to work on him to stand quietly and wait until he’s told to move forward without the drama queen display?
Last night I ground drove him up and down the road, stopping in the driveway, or along the roadside (making sure no traffic was approaching), and he did put up some pretty dramatic displays, but after a while he did settle down and waited patiently for the next cue.
I drive in a two wheeled cart (thankfully, otherwise his antics would have resulted in a much more dramatic story, lol), and had switched from a half-cheek snaffle to a kimberwicke recently to ensure he halted at those intersections (but he was doing this stuff with both kinds of bits)
Thanking you in advance, wise CotH-ers![/QUOTE]
um - i would go back to basics - and for get the driving for a spell and concentrate on getting him to stand still which i hasnt to add is a basic training skill which should have been taught to him
there is of course different ways you can do this, one i like with a horse that wont stand is not to make him feel pressured by anything, since you have had him a year
and not worked on the basic command of standing still will have its effects in anything you do with the horse in any stage of obediance needed.
so-- get your horse and start of by bonding with him, when you lead him out of the stable
attach a long rein to him, and loop it through the ring or rope of where you attach him when you are grooming him,
then keep the lenght in one hand, so as the horse moves you move but you havent lose control of the horse at any time
so for exsample-- horse move back away from the hitch rail – you have the lenght for him to move backwards you say nothing to the horse but wait until he stops moving once stop
move the horse forwards to where he should – say stand up, say good boy and use your tones of voice and then instantly groom again— grooming a horse bonds you with the horse but you can use the brush as a reward and a nice thing to have done to him , the horse will eventually associated it with something nice and will stand up with out to much bother after a couple attempts of not standing still…
be aware tones of voice have an effect on a horse and so do your vibes if you hurry or are hesistant or furious, or cant do attitude then hrose will pick up on those doubts and vibes
ie-- hesitance – creates a doubt- a doubt in a horses mind is one of fear
confusion creates a doubt, lack of confidence creates a doubt, etc
now being that the fear factor of a horse is one to flee, and think afterwards if restricted however its then down to one of advasion, or one of i wana get out of here
ie backing up, bolt. rear or otherwise.
in your case more like you have panic attacks as you know the horse wont stand still
in turn the horse can sense that so it doesnt, change your thinking in not to hurry up
and be calmer the horse looks to you for confidence and guidance
giving a vibe off - as in a hurry ie got an intersection i hope i hope hes stands stills for me etc etc
is lack of confidence and giving a huge vibe as unsure, if ridden probably do the same thing so horse panics at these points and places
so the horse antispates you and does exactly that–
seen as you have had him a year-- he caught your vibe,
had you ignored the intersection or places that concern you way back when you got him
the horse would have ignored them to and stood still and not panicked
now its become a vice - as uncontrolable and the horse has to be re-trained
then you must also be re trained in your thinking - and what vibes and signals you are sending to the horse
we in uk ride on the roads as a matter of course to get to a - or b, so traffic is a top thing over here, and you hae to be aware but also confident, plus ignorant, by that i mean ignore the traffic so it comes through to the horse as a nothing and hes not to be afraid
of it …
flogging whipping etc,isnt an ideal way to win a horse over, how you do that is placing in his mind its a good idea to xyz.
never used treats as they only rewards a bad behaviour, but cuddles and pats are prazes and the horse understands them more so
if he was mine-- i would without a doubt ride him to those places that upset and ride him thorught it, different rider i bet he wont panic as i have no fear so he would have no fear
and stand still
question do you drive the same route-- or do you have to go the same route wwith intersections to get anywhere
plus will add wheres the groom or passenger to get hold of the horses heead if need be or are you driving alone
i would aslo surgest you find a decent driving trianer as i also think that perhaps you havent quite mastere the art of long linging- driving as tend to use his rump in both cases of riding or driving
mate- a horse will tip up – ie rear buck bolt – if to much on the arse
have you ever heard the saying ask politely and you shall get
if you ask a horse any horse to any thing in a correct polite manner then you shall get a good response
as with people - its called respect