Thanks for your stories/suggestions…
I’ll have to double check the stirrups but they were pretty nubby, not the more hook-like ones. I do see there are some that are very unobtrusive and perhaps that would be a better choice.
I think I will suggest that she put that stirrup over the neck before sliding off for now. She is quite small and it’s a long way down for her, so pushing away as she comes down will lead to a pretty decent drop for her. Pony is also round so it would be quite easy to land on her heels and then fall under/close to under pony. I would bet the pony wouldn’t do anything, but we don’t want to invite other possibilities to the mix.
Little girl was super brave about the whole thing. Not a single tear…