@YankeeDuchess - I agree that there is MUCH about this report and case that gives me pause. It’s a MESS.
I will say, I can understand why two women who are now almost 60 would complain to SafeSport about their alleged experience with McDonald when they were teens, after reading this article, and in the broader context of what has been happening in the sport. Their experience reminds me of some of the background of the Rob Gage case. But in the RG case, once the investigation got underway, it was determined that there were indeed more current victims. There is no public information indicating that there are more current victims with respect to McDonald.
After reading the article, I came away with the impression that:
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McDonald refused to cooperate or participate in the investigation from the get go
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The original complainant was deeply dissatisfied with how the SafeSport investigator handled her complaint, and when it came time to go to arbitration, she had lost confidence in SafeSport and the process. I guess I can understand a description of that as ‘flaky’ … but I can also understand a complainant in her position feeling vulnerable, and with McDonald’s threat w/ respect to lawsuits, a complainant backing away altogether in a situation like this.
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I totally agree that in this situation, SafeSport’s subsequent decision to rescind the lifetime ban of McDonald makes sense. The case was administratively closed.
But here’s the thing that I still have trouble with about this story. I’m going to quote directly from a specific portion of the article published on February 5th…
“ SafeSport, however, in especially strong terms for the center, said both of McDonald’s assertions that the allegations against him were “proven false,” and that the case had been dropped because of new information, were “not true.”
“Absolutely not,” Dan Hill, a spokesman for SafeSport, said this week.
“The center is aware of his statement and it is not accurate as far as the center’s position,” Hill said.
Any additional information McDonald might have provided SafeSport, Hill said, had “absolutely nothing to do with the center’s” decision regarding arbitration.
McDonald denied knowing K.D. during the telephone interview. He was then informed that K.D. had provided SCNG photos of McDonald riding “Charlie” a horse she said she owned, a photo of Debbie McDonald riding the same horse, of Bob McDonald water skiing, McDonald driving a boat on the Colorado River, and of a ski boat K.D. said McDonald owned. The name of the boat was “Hot to Trott,” she said.
“I don’t know that person,” McDonald responded.
He also denied knowing the second alleged victim in the phone interview.
“I don’t know her,” he said.
A day after McDonald’s denial, his attorney said “He did not deny knowing (the second alleged victim.)”
Hmmmm. This is a bad look for McDonald. The reporter (Scott Reid - who is quite a good reporter, incidentally, and broke the Don Peters case I believe) called him up to get comments about the whole SafeSport case… presumably after getting details from K.D. … and McDonald clearly misrepresented the closure as if he was cleared, etc.
Here’s a later portion of the article involving a quote from McDonald that I find noteworthy…
“I did not have an inappropriate relationship of any sort sexual or otherwise, with minors athletes between 1973 through 1976 or any other year,” McDonald said in the affidavit to SafeSport. “I categorically deny any/all alleged wrongdoing. I believe the conduct of those (who) have made these allegations, and that of the Center, is purely vexatious and meant for the purpose of harassing myself, my wife, her participation in the Olympic games and movement, and our business interests.”
Soooo… if you read the details of the complaint in the OC Register article… you have to wonder why two different minors from that period knew where the condoms and lubricant were in his apartment… and why one of the minors had a contemporaneous witness from that period, who provided testimony to SafeSport saying K.D. Spoke to her at the time about the sexual relationship. Also… is there any evidence K.D. has reached out to McDonald or his wife in recent years, and shown an interest in harassing them? Is K.D. involved with horses in a professional way? If not, then why would she be Moro are’s to weaponize SafeSport in an attempt to damage the McDonald’s Olympic ties and business interests? And lastly… I thought McDonald (per his own previous statement) didn’t know who K.D. was… so why would a total stranger reach out to try and hurt his business?
Bottom line… this case is a bit of a mess on SafeSport’s end. The investigator sounds awful, and the primary complainant does seem to be a bit ‘flaky.’ But after reading this article, I come away with the impression that McDonald has been dishonest about multiple aspects of this matter.
And I hate to say it… but where does Debbie fall on some specific aspects of this case? Will she go on the record and state she doesn’t know who K.D. is, or who the horse was? Can Debbie corroborate/affirmatively dispute the alleged location of McDonald’s apartment during that time frame (likely that’s possible)? What about the boat? And other details? I don’t mean to beat up on Debbie with respect to old allegations… but she’s directly tied to a CURRENT USEF Olympic program. Her husband has now commented to reporters about certain aspects of his case, and the allegations against him. He’s denied knowing the complainant, and essentially called the person a vindictive liar.
She can now either support his public statements, or she can say, “No comment.” I’m not going to judge her either way… I know many people who are fond of her personally, and this is a messy, sad situation. But the fact is that the complaint was made, evidence was gathered, and then the case was administratively closed. A few months later, when a reporter called Bob seeking comments… Bob provided comments. Which was NOT SMART. And now… Debbie and USEF need to deal with this latest messy wrinkle in this case. It is really unfortunate, but they need to deal with it one way or another, if they want to continue to have any credibility when it comes to SafeSport. If Debbie’s choice at present is to go with a “no comment” statement and support her husband (which I can understand I guess… they’ve been married a long time, and no comment seems to be a wise course of action)… then it seems to me it’s best for Debbie to quietly part ways with USEF with her with respect to her role with the Dressage Team. If, instead, she wants to 100% support her husband, then they should get a lawyer, and decide as to whether or not they are going to now sue SafeSport, or the complainant who seems to have released details to the reporter with the OC Register. And if Debbie and Bob choose to pursue legal action against SafeSport/the complainant… then USEF really needs to make a public statement on this matter, sooner or later.
I’m curious if anyone else see’s my logic here… or if folks see this mess differently. I really feel badly for Debbie… this is a bad situation to be in. And the SafeSport case was clearly messy, but if Bob’s comments to the reporter are as alleged in the 02/05/21 article… that’s a real problem.