Ok Guys I said I would not be reading any more of this post since I think we have dragged the issue into the ground.
BUT Everyone whether they actually know the circumstances or not has now formed an opinion. Arguments from any side are clearly not going to change anyones already made up mind. I do think that YL has the closest look on the situation since she personally knows the mare, me, and the legal situation. She also has the training together with the legal and equine experience to know what many don’t.
I also realize that this is a free country think what you want. It would be pretty boring if we all agreed.
I wanted to caution people about buying in Germany (or other non english speaking country). Not cause hate and discontent. I do think at least most people here will think twice about who to trust and who not to when purchasing a horse now. I think there were tons of great points brought up on all the varied side and views. I do think my post whether everyone understood how this could have happened or not served its purpose.
It does not matter how famous or knowledgeable someone is, check 3 or 4 times before you believe. Then get your own trusted source to look at everything.
I am in no way bitter! I am hurt that my trust was so badly abused. I am hurt when I look at this fabulous mare and know I can never ride her again.
Talking about it, is what will eventually solve the problem and the problem does exist.
Trust me when I let you all know that this mare has paid her dues and no matter what anyone thinks she is incredibly special and will be treated like the royalty for the rest of our lives. Her presence alone in my life is an incredible gift. None of you have ridden her, very few have ever met her so would have no grounds to comment on her in any way. I know that would not stop many of you.
I have had some of this countries top professionals and some of Germany’s best tell me this was an incredible mare with tons of potential that was never really realized due to the way she way ridden.
I have met some of, and am friends with some of the best in the business because of this mare. I met one of the best vets in the world in FL all because of her. Stayed at a phenomenal quarantine station in Wellington (they fly in and you can continue to ride them!), probably the best in the country where the care was first rate. Made good friends with the barn owner where I stayed that first season in FL with this mare. She was so knowledgeable and kind and always there for this mare and me. I learned so much that first year. I now know one of the best riders in the country and get to lesson with him (when I can get there that is.
) All these things are positives that came out of a horrible situation.
No one knows what will come of all of these new connections in my life. Maybe the next part of my life I will really need one of these people or they will really need me.
My lifestyle and outlook on life has no time for bitter or angry. All ancient history now! I cannot change it, so why look back. I am looking forward to what will come next in both our lives and how to make that a positive experience for us both. When I was going through all of this, I was mostly devastated that my mare had gone through so much and there wasn’t much more I could do to make her comfortable.
I have gained tons of experience and made many new friends. In 18 months I will have 3 world class foals to start and ride. All with stunning movement, looks, fire and minds. I will have a matched set and a good friend of mine has a 4th. Can you see the faces on the judges at Dressage at Devon when we dress the riders alike and I buy them matching bling and then see the judge try to figure out which horse is which when we ride them all in the 3 yr old materiale class? Tons of laughs from that one coming up!! I will love every minute of the future with them.
My mare is comfortable and happy. She carried a foal of her own and then when she was in the field with the other mare and foal she nursed the other mares foal also even though the other mare was also nursing her foal. She loves being a Mom.
I still am wistful sometimes for what could have / should have been, but love what she is now and the gifts she continues to bring to my life. Someday I will canter one of her daughters down centerline.