IMO this well-written article/editorial deserves its own thread. IMO the comments section under the article isn’t adequate, what with spam posts and the non-linear format.
Every owner goes through this at some point, if they own a horse or horses for long enough. Sometimes it can drag out for quite long time.
One of the biggest challenges I’ve found, and that writer Sophie Coffey alluded to, is the variation of opinion on what the problem is, and the variation of the sources of those opinions.
The question ‘what is going on with Boogie?’ can become a sort of personal sociopolitical tangle, as well as a diagnostic one, with competing opinions and suggestions. And a few people who take it personally that their suggestion was not the one followed up. (Especially an opinion/suggestion that is one of many. It seems that everyone has a thought on a NQR horse.)
All of the opinionators consider themselves experts, whatever their background. Background also varies widely. Trainers come from an experience mindset different from vets. Natural healers can be working from any of a range of philosophies on equine bodies and health.
There are the well-meaning opinions that reject vet science and always go natural, and those who reject all of the natural and follow only the vet, and a wide range that considers both.
And then … Possibly within each treating community there is not unity of opinion – there can be a range of ideas from different vets and different healers.
And then … With a condition that doesn’t clearly resolve, the owner’s evaluation of exactly what treatment is doing the most good can be difficult.
And then … Sometimes someone with a personal rather than healing connection, such as a friend or trainer, is pushing one set of ideas over another on the owner, maybe their own ideas. The owner may have to sort out the strength of the relationship if the owner is having other thoughts and doesn’t agree.
It can be alarming to look back on years of efforts to improve some NQR condition in a horse and realize how many different opinions have weighed in, and how much has been spent over time, trying to help a horse feel right.
There is one opinion that matters the most – the horse. But when a NQR condition drags on, either lingering or seeming to heal only to return over time, the horse sometimes almost gets left out once a primary opinionator has the most influence on the owner.
It is a weird situation to focus on the horse and realize that all of the opinions have latched onto their favorite symptoms that they know how to treat. And none of the opinions is really taking into account everything the horse is showing us over days, weeks, months.