It took my coach observing yesterday to tell me that my greenbean chonk of a buckskin (western dressage candidate) was listening to my hips! I had no idea he was already ‘there’! Experimented with some stops and serpentines and 90 degree turns (all at a walk) using only my torso and wow… what a thrill. No longer is he so concentrated so much on learning how to balance with a rider, he’s already actually paying attention to me. …as for gripping with knees, i’ll do that if i feel i’m losing control over a horse going wild, but that’s just to stay aboard.
in my defense…i was too busy watching my OTHER horse that she was holding, cause he kept trying to drop and roll in his newly saddled body. I got very little out of my lesson with the buckskin but it seems like he got something LOL. Meanwhile…young Standardbred got in his first mounting. (then dismount and hop back up on buckskin) Then his first few steps, (then hop back up on the buckskin) then his walk across the arena. (then unsaddle both and let them roll and roll and roll and eat a carrot in the wonderful and fun and entertaining and cool training arena. All that in one hour…phew!