I’m an older rider, but passionate about learning dressage. I started late, and then rode in a bad saddle for a year that pitched me forward, in addition to sitting at a desk all day for work. I film a lot of rides to see what I am doing wrong, but for the life of me, I can’t seem to keep my hips forward in the saddle, especially when posting. No matter what, I push my hips back, and bring my shoulders forward. I can fix it in the walk, it’s not terrible in the canter, but when I post, it’s like my body automatically assumes this terrible position. I take lessons and my trainer will constantly say, “Sit back!” but I can’t actively correct it unless I’m thinking about it or someone says something.
Was hoping some of you may have some tips or tricks to help me work through this as I’ve been struggling with it since I sold my old saddle late last year. It’s gotten gradually better, but nothing I’m happy with when I go back and watch my videos. I need something else besides “Sit back” to help me correct this. For instance, I use to struggle with keeping my legs long and was constantly drawing them up in the saddle. Then a friend said, “Think of it as dropping all your weight down into your heels.” And that did it. Within a couple weeks of using this reminder, I no longer have a problem with my lower leg. So I’m hoping that with all the knowledgeable folks here in this forum, I can get some tips to help me correct this problem with my hips and leaning over them.