Hi everyone, I’m having a problem with feeling insecure in my new saddle. I got a Dover Special Eq from Dover super cheap and I’m wondering if there is any hope for the leather becoming more grippy as I break it in? Or should I just return it as it’s likely hopeless? I bought it because people said good things about it and compared it to feeling like the Butet but I’m now falling out of love with this saddle very quickly.
I had a few years off riding and I’m coming back into it on a TB who is also coming back from a year off from an injury. He’s not proven to be spooky so far but I still feel like I’m on a Slip-and-Slide which I don’t think can entirely be just due to my lack of fitness. I’m between horses at the moment so I don’t want to spend thousands of dollars on a saddle that could end up not even fitting the horse I eventually buy. I had an Antares that I just sold (and I’m kicking myself now) so I know comparing buffalo skin to Dover’s saddles is difficult but I feel like I should at least be able to feel somewhat secure in my seat when I ride! This saddle is causing me to brace, and grip, and tip forward and do all sorts of weird things because its SO slippery.
Anyway, I’m looking for any suggestions for a rider like me just coming back into riding and looking for something with more grip/security? Or is there anything I can do to make my saddle more normal? Should I oil it? I don’t know, maybe I need to try a different pair of pants but I really don’t feel like being limited in what I can ride in is ideal… I’m open to Dover saddles because there are two stores in my area so I could sit in them but I’ll hear anything. I prefer a higher-end saddle so I could consider those too even though I will have to spend more.
EDIT: These Pessoas are always on sale and they boast “extra grippy leather”… anyone ever ride on one? http://www.doversaddlery.com/pessoa-gen-x-prestige-xch/p/Z1-USED083B/
TIA!