I was thinking about this the other day in my lesson, first lesson on new horse, fairly green horse, I had my test ride, and a couple of toodles around the place before this.
We do lots of walk work, to get both of us comfortable, but want to end on sone trot work…
So, when she asks us to trot, grown up me says, just ask, leg on, sit up, off we go.
Child me, still lurking in there says “shorten your reins and trot” because I heard that every lesson as a kid.
Post Accident me, worries that the most Mellow horse in the world might do something stupid, and agrees with child, “best take a hold”
We get told to walk.
“Now don’t change anything, sit still, ask for the transition, and go”
Grown up says. “Leave everything ALONE”
Looks down in horror, because child and PA me are shortening the damn reins…it’s as frustrating as hell, to me, to my instructor, and most of all to my horse…but it appears to originate somewhere under conscious thought, so need to work even harder to over ride that old programming.