Hi all! Been a while since I’ve logged in, but I remembered how helpful the community is here and am looking for some outside input about a shareboard/barn situation.
A little background first: It’s been about a year since I last consistently rode, as my former trainer “retired” after leaving the barn she taught at due to the new owners’ lack of care and management. We still keep in contact, and I guess the break worked out for me, as I was able to focus on finishing college classes and then start job hunting. A few months ago she contacted me about a shareboard deal at the barn she boarded two of her horses at. I was excited–I had shareboarded and leased in the past, but it’s been a few years since I’ve had the time and/or funds to do so. I tried this horse and she was fantastic–patient, a great packer, and would be able to take me up to 3’, something I’ve been wanting to do (I’ve jumped up to 2’6” in the past). The agreement was I’d pay half of board, farrier, and shots and would usually get to ride 3 days each week, which was well within my budget and would be perfect! Even better, the horse owner wanted a shareboarder since she travels for work a lot, so there’d be a number of weeks where I’d have the horse to myself, while still only paying half the costs. I was thrilled!
It ended up not working out. The horse owner and I were asked, by the BOs, to sign an agreement (ok by me). I showed up that day to sign the agreement, but noticed that it stated I was required to take two lessons each month. That was never mentioned, and while the trainer there seems very knowledgeable, she charges quiiiite a bit more than anyone in the area, and more than I want to pay. To add to this, I had just started a full time job, and with traffic I wouldn’t be sure of what time exactly I’d make it to the barn during the week.
The next day I get a text from the horse owner after she talked with the BOs. Ends up, I would be required to take three lessons each month or pay a $100 monthly “shareboard fee.” Not only would three lessons nearly double my monthly costs, but I would be the only person there required to take lessons. No other boarder is required to take lessons. And I’ve never heard of a monthly “shareboard fee.” I decided against it since the whole thing left me with a bad feeling.
The reason I’m writing this post is my trainer has contacted me again, saying one of the BOs talked to her, and apparently the whole three lesson requirement was never a thing? That it was all just miscommunication. Both my trainer and I have our doubts about that, but now the BOs and horse owner want to sit down with me and figure something out. I figured I’d go and see if maybe something can actually be worked out. My questions are: Should I bother? Is it unreasonable to not agree to the lesson requirement? Is a shareboard fee a normal thing now? Maybe I’m misunderstanding this, but how should the BOs be involved, as I always thought a shareboard agreement was between a horse owner and the shareboarder? I was told that the “barn has to come out ahead in this” and was confused as to why.
Thank you for reading, and for any and all advice