[QUOTE=Auventera Two;3222285]
Norval - horses are all different. Some are spooky, hot and reactive, some are not. Period. Just like people. Just like dogs.
That’s just the way it is with a hot and reactive horse. What she does highly depends on my emotions, my physical comfort for the day and subsequent riding skills, the other horses in the group, what speed we’re doing, and what kind of trail. Her actions and emotions are directly related to me, and to what is going on around her.
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Strider and Shadow may not spook at things, but other horses DO and that’s just the way it is with horses. :)[/QUOTE]
I wish I know how to divide a post up like some so I could answer each section??
I know this Vickey. I now everyone and horses and dogs are different. I dominated the obedience ring for 12 years with my dogs. Won nearly everything I went in. I also taught obedience classes for those 12 years and run into all sorts of personalities but it always boiled down to the owner and his/her problems, not the dogs.
You talk about moods. I totally agree. A horse senses your mood. If you are brave and confident the horse senses this and is brave in return. I ride with confidence and the horse responds to this. Like the lady and the train, she maintained calm, took the horse in hand and the horse responded as such.
It ALL boils down to you, the rider, not the horse. Ride with confidence, carry a big enough bit to back up any rebellion and your horse wil respond.
Remember I did ride alot of problem horses for people and rentals and in every case, every one, the horse responded almost immediately to a firm confident rider. A eventer with a rider , very experienced, in her mid 20’s works full time at a track with thoroughbreds suddenly had a serious problem. totally barn sour, totally, she couldn’t get 100 yards from home and the horse reared , spun and headed for home at a run. She finally just gave up.
I took the horse and within 5 minutes we had our first fight, the horse lost in less then 10 seconds, another fight a few minutes later and again the horse lost quicker this time and that was it.
She rode Strider that day for her confidence building and saw just how good her old horses could be.
Anyway Strider and Shadow. I got Strider as a 6 year old stud, mean as all get out, needed a wipe to just enter the stall, the people said don’t turn you back on him, he will kill someone some day and they GAVE him to me for 2 weeks to straighten out. I ended up buying him, meanest horse you can imagine but what heart, what determination, what desire to win under all conditions, never ever quit. Still has that mean eye but anyone from 8 to 80 can handle him, ride him, do anything with him. I made him.
Shadow?? Took me through 3 fences and broke one post when we hit it head on, dumped me almost daily in the arena , I was covered with bruises but I always got back up, back on and finished the ride.
Slammed into a road sign on a bolt, bounced off the sign, over part of a gard rail and we slide on our side in front of a large truck. I held on and suprisingly everything is in slow motion, I thought about holding him , not letting him get away, got up, needed 17 stitches but i got back on and rode another 5 miles just to show him he did not wind, my elbow was badly hurt but I felt none of it until later, hip too. He got his stictches and for a month we fought until one day I decided enough was enough, the big western bit came out, the one on the right in the picture I posted, someone strong held him, it is all videoed and I want to post it soon, anyway the horse was held while I mounted and that was the day he quit fighting me. I had him beat with the big bit and he has never run or bucked from that day. Never thrown me again, went down hald dozen times but that was both of us, head over heals.
Actually went down Saturday, tripped and slid on his knees and nose.
Anyway Vickey none of my horses have ever come easy, not without a really good fight at one time in their training but they have all ended up great animals.
Rider mood is everything, be confident, carry enough bit, spurs I higly recommend and ride with confidence. It is contagious.
I will try posting a video soon.