I got knocked out by a eight month old colt that we were grooming for a show. I was trying to trim a bridle path and he was being a good boy, when he suddenly brought his head up and hit me under the jaw. Talk about blood when my tooth went through my lip! If one had seen the “accident scene,” no one would have never guessed what had happened. Work around big animals and stuff happens.
For all we know, he could have been dismounted and checking out her hind foot and got kicked. It doesn’t matter. It certainly isn’t anyone’s business except the owner of the horse as to how the horse is trained, handled and managed.
It is easy to say things on the Internet, to pass judgement, to second guess but none of us were there.
For me, it is enough to think that he was a great rider and trainer, ina long line of great riders and trainers, involved in a dangerous sport and he met up with fate. How sad that he died so young. But each of us who train, breed and love horses take a risk. Some of us more and some of us less. That is an individual choice. This was not a young person, but someone whe knew the risks.
But horses are a way of life and a heritage. It is what we preserve, it is a cultural heritage and what we create with that heritage that will one day go into the future, for other generations to enjoy. This is what we give to this sport and to breeding/loving/training these wonderful animals.
In my life I have lost both parents, a sister, a nephew, a best friend, two aunts, an uncle, my sister’s best friend (and my friend), and my brother’s best friend (and my friend). I have lost people I love from suicide, cancer, old age, and accidents. Loss is awful. It hurts even years after. We can all play the blame game but trust me, it isn’t worth it. When family and friends read this and they will, it hurts when people write stuff. Think hard before you commit words to paper (or commuter), they can hurt others for years after.
A horse owner has some hard decisions to make, which are his/hers to make alone. That horse owner has not written this board, they have not asked for our opinion. MYOB Why do the “collective we” need to know the details of this horse or its management. Why does anyone want interject their opinions or try to sway opinion using this forum. I just don’t see how it is anyone’s business.
We will never know what happened. A good man died. Can’t we leave it at that and just celebrate a man who loved horses and loved. I can. His story has inspired me to try to be kinder, to show my family how much I love them, to strive to be more controlled, to train more intelligently and to be safe.
I wish the best for his family. I hope they find or have found peace and find a way to prosper and find happiness. I believe that they will.