Remembering Ricardo Amaya

I am a horsewoman and rider. Ricardo Amaya was my coach and trainer who helped me blossom as a competitor in ways I could not have imagined. I have always felt so honored and privileged to be riding with him. Approximately two weeks ago, he suffered a fatal riding accident. There are three things that stand out in my mind as I remember Ricardo:
1. His devotion to his clients’ horses. My dressage horse Huntington colliced last year 2007 in the middle of the night. It was impossible for me to get to the barn in which he was staying as I live some 100 miles away. In my stead, Ricardo left his home in Woodland Hills, CA to trailer Huntington to the equine hospital in Somis where he could be treated. He stayed with the horse throughout the night and in the process called me to give me updates and console me. As it turned out, Huntington recovered nicely. I owe my deepest gratitude to Ricardo Amaya whose quick and determined action saved my horse.
2. His generosity. I had won a first level championship class last Fall at LAEC in Burbank CA on my beautiful mare Mahogany. Prior to the awards ceremony in the evening, scheduled to honor all the winners of the various championships, a Latin celebration was being held complete with steel bands and dancing girls donning huge feathered head dresses. The award winners had to wait in a ring adjacent to the arena in which the celebration was held. This arena was also the one in which awards would be given. Needless to say, a number of horses would not go near the arena, forcing their riders to return to the barn and dismount. Mahogany was doing fine until a horse standing next to her blew. After that, she would have nothing to do with the awards ceremony. Ricardo knowing my horse and recognizing that we were no where to be found, left the celebration and the table where his family and friends were sitting to come and find us. When he did, he took Mahogany by the reins and led her on foot into the awards arena so that we could be honored. I can’t think of many coaches who would abandon their fun to seek out a troubled horse/rider pair after the show is effectively over. I will never forget this act of generosity on the part of Ricardo.
3. His ability as a rider. Among the most stunning riding exhibitions I have ever seen by Ricardo was when he rode a silver Lusitano stallion at the invitation of the horse’s trainer. What I remember most about this ride is not so much the movements performed by this Latin pair but how Ricardo’s visible yet quiet presence on the horse seemed to melt into the background, thrusting the stallion’s beauty and glory into the foreground of the onlooker. I have thought to myself that this is what mastery in dressage is all about – the rider diminishing himself to showcase his horse. Ricardo’s ride on the silver Lusitano stallion will always linger in my consciousness as one of a true virtuoso.

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Desertsong thank you

What a beautiful, honest, caring, loving post…thanks you for sharing some background with the COTH readers. I am so sorry for your loss…

A beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. I hope it goes well for the mare from this point on. So very sorry for the loss of such a special person.

I think this thread should be deleted by the mods

Dessertsong, I thnk your heart is in the right place, hoever this thread doesn’t help Ricardo [the horse, or the horse’s owners].

I don’t know anyone in this situation, but if I did I would not want such ah sensitive topic viewed by 100,000 new readers on on day.

I think we need to respect Ricardo’s family, as well as the horses owners privacy in this matter.

That said I think the COTH should respectfully remove the topic from discussion.

DGD…well thats rude!. Is there something wrong with paying tribute to a person you cared deeply about and have just lost? Give the woman a break…wow.

I didn’t think the post was insensitive. If nothing else, it gave a sense of hope. I hope the poor mare gets a second chance, Ricardo is in peace, and some sense is made of the whole unfortunate situation. I know in the western show circuit and competition in general in regard to animals, there is an amount of cruelty inherent. Is this the norm for competition dressage? As a newbie , I’m curious where dressage lies on the scale? I know that saddlebreds and TWH’s suffer their share.

I didn’t think the post was insensitive. If nothing else, it gave a sense of hope. I hope the poor mare gets a second chance, Ricardo is in peace, and some sense is made of the whole unfortunate situation. I know in the western show circuit and competition in general in regard to animals, there is an amount of cruelty inherent. Is this the norm for competition dressage? As a newbie , I’m curious where dressage lies on the scale? I know that saddlebreds and TWH’s suffer their share.

I think the first part is a loving tribute. The second part about the horse may be sharing too much information unless the OP is the owner of the horse.

Ricardo sounds like a wonderful peson and trainer. Sorry for your loss.

Desertsong my heart goes out to you and Ricardo’s family.

Knowing…Ricardo and the horse owner I find your story to be very distasteful. It is wrong of you to make private information public. Its not something a friend would do. Especially when you know how hurtful it is to the mare owner and Ricardo’s family.

I know this mare also and her owner. It’s unkind to
air this on a public forum. We have all said goodbye to Ricardo last week at St. Mel’s
church, we cried and walked away with heavy heart.

Please, let it go.

Angelique

I don’t think it is rude at all. This person is expressing their grief in a way that is heartbreaking and honest. Who are we protecting here? The owner? The horse? It seems that these people were not aware of things regarding this mare that led to this fatal event. Maybe if the people selling them this mare had disclosed this prior we would not be having this conversation and this wonderful rider would still be with us. So if everyone keeps this under their hat who is it protecting? I think it is very honerable that it is made public so that the best interest of the next person who has the guts to get on this mare is AWARE!!! Several years ago I owned a FEI potential young horse with German Bloodlines that almost killed me!!! Bucking was his thing also and at 17H when he launched you might as well have been thrown off of a two story building. I was unaware that the dam of this gelding was a complete nut bag and probably should not have been bred, maybe should have had a bullet put in her head to save us all. All of her offspring have issues/none of which was disclosed to me. And the training method was found to be very stringent for such a high strung horse. I had him retrained as a hunter and he is happy as a clam. Dressage was not his thing and he was trying to tell me that all along. It just took two slam dunks for me to listen. I figured the third strike was my ticket out and before I took it, I as a horsewoman listened to my horse. Something is bothering this mare badly and I hope someone can figure it out and she can have some type of a career. But keeping information hidden never helps anyone. Horse people have a responsibility to the horse and to whomever ends up with our horses not to pass the buck.

I didn’t see anything improper about that post. It was a lovely tribute.

Why the assumption that it must be the mare’s fault? [edit] I’m flabbergasted by this reaction to a tragedy. For all we know, it would have been a normal fall if Ricardo had been wearing a helmet. I think it is completely inappropriate to spread rumors about an innocent animal. [edit]:no:

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I admit I was a bit uncomfortable about the amount of information given out about the horse but lets face it the dressage community is small enough that information about the horse was likely to become pretty common knowledge anyways. [edit]

It just seems awfully convenient to blame the poor mare. Why can’t it just be a terrible accident without assigning blame? Especially since no one saw it…

This information was no ones business. Only Ricardo’s family’s and the mare owners. Period!

Wow-what a sad scenario all the way around…BUT if this was not the first time that the mare had dumped Ricardo “head first” on March 26th (the day of the fatal accident) WHY WASN’T HE WEARING A HELMET? My heart breaks for his children and his family…:no:

thank you! finally someone said it! it doesn’t matter how great of a rider you are or how much you trust (or DON’T trust) your horse… everyone should ALWAYS WEAR A HELMET WHEN THEY RIDE! even the “bomb proof” horses can have moments and launch you!
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Yes, alot of people ride horses that spook. If he thought the horse was truly dangerous he wouldn’t have bought her …again, ALOT of horses are going to spook when a dump truck is dumping a load or a loud noise is made! It likely would have been a normal fall if he had been wearing a helmet and likely he would have gotten on her again.